This write up is for Our Brothers who sincerely want to stop masturbation, but are finding it difficult.
Before We advance, We would love to appreate Mr. Seun and all Nairaland crew for this platform they have provided for us to be helped and also to help others. They may not know how many people they have helped through this forum, but indeed, this forum is touching lives. I have read of so many testimonies of those that have got jobs, business ideas , solution to problems ,etc, through this forum.
We do not need many grammar here. Let us go straight to the point.
By Our definition, not Oxford, ( because We are not going to use it for an examination and all We seek here is to librate those who it has taken hostage), masturbation or self servicing is when a man/woman pleasures himself/herself to orgasm. That is, touching the sensitive areas of your human body until you climax. It starts like a joke and gradually turns into an habit. Thereby, making it difficult for you to stop. We are going to narrow this down to the male folks (Our Brothers).
This is not where We will be talking about spirituality. We all are going to work together to suggest practical solutions to this challenge. Because of the kind of work We do , (herbal practitioners , majoring in the male organ,) We have access to lot of information about this topic.
Just relax as We take it, gradually. Remember, this is not for everybody, but those who are tired of it.
WHO ARE THOSE WHO MASTURBATE?
Almost everybody at one point in time has masturbated, including you that is reading this post. Remember, We are talking from Our Personal Experiences and that of many who have shared theirs with us, in sincerity. Including: doctors, religious leaders, etc. So you are not alone.
Some are still doing it.
Some are able to control it.
Some have stopped it.
And others who want to stop it , but are finding it difficult. Those are the people We are here for, today.
THE VIEWS OF THOSE WHO WANT TO STOP, BUT CAN NOT.
We asked a brother, how did you start masturbation?
Ans: I saw my friends doing it and i joined them. That day, we were watch a pornographic movie. After that day, i started doing it almost everyday.
Everybody has a story of how it started. But, the challenge now , is how to stop it.
Him and many others who spoke to us said that they were willing to stop it , but could not just stop.
They see themselves doing it over and over again.
In fact, one told me that he has tried his best, that he was not going to try anything else again. He was actually going to live with it like that, until another challenge brought him to us.
HOW DO THEY FEEL?
They feel very bad. They feel helpless. They do not enjoy it anymore. A doctor told me that he feels less of a man and a disgrace to his medical profession. He advises people and talk to them on how to stop, but he finds it difficult to apply those formulas, he gives to others.
Another brother told me that he stopped for a while. But continued, when he started experiencing Premature Expulsion. He was tired of taking insults from women. So he felt it was better doing it by himself. Now, he feels very bad , because it is deteriorating to impotency.
He is ready to do anything to stop it.
This is not where to show a ” Mr. Stainless ” attitude.
They feel bad already. All we are here for, is to help out.
We are not expecting many comments on this Topic , because it has to do with people’s private lives.
But if you have something meaningful to share, that can help others , please do not hold back. This might just be your opportunity to give back to the society.
NOTE: NO INSULTS. Only practical and realistic suggestions
HOW CAN I STOP IT?
1. Talk to a counselor.
2. Stay away from phonographic materials. This is a little difficult because , sexual contents are everywhere. Even on the streets and our immediate environment.
3. Exercise regularly
4. Learn a new trade or how to play a new instrument.
5. Avoid solitude.
6. Do not worry about it. Thinking of stopping it brings it closer to you. Relax your mind, even when you try and fail. Do not fight yourself. It will go gradually. It is going to be a process, not a one day thing.
I know some may say: I have tried all these and It did not work.
YES, I know.
I have heard this from many people who later appreciated that fact that I made them to go over it again, this time around, with my supervision. This is where the real solution is.
All you need is a person who is ready to go through the process with you. A person you can be open to.
A person you can call, when you feel like you can no longer help yourself.
This is where I make myself available, FREELY.
I derive Joy in helping people like you get out of it. Although, it takes a lot of time, but it will surely pass.
Be smart enough to contact me, let us work on it together.
Give it another shot. Let us try , just this last time.
The solution is not in theories. It is in my own pratical ways of giving back to the society.
DISADVANTAGES OF MASTURBATION ON YOU
No matter how difficult it is to stop it, We must try untill We succeed.
The negative effect of it on a man is enormous.
1. Too much of it weakens a man.
2. It causes premature expulsion.
3. It could lead to impotency.
4. It separates a man from his wife. Most men who masturbate do not have much intimate relationships with their wives.
5. It may disgrace you. Some guys masturbate almost everywhere and anytime, which could lead to being caught and disgraced.
6. You feel so bad and depressed, after the action.
1. Remove everything that can stimulate you.
2. Avoid loneliness and chalk out a busy social life
or take up an engaging sport and activity.
3. Consume fruits and vegetables that increase
energy.
4. Find someone to counsel you through the
addiction.(If you feel comfortable)
5. Have a strong goal or motivation to stop
masturbating.
7. Join a forum or support group to kick this
addiction.
8. Be patient, The dude above me stole my spot though.
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