Yesterday, in a hospital in the outskirt of Lagos, a wonderful DPA doctor alerted us in the following message:
“A patient of mine just came with bruises all over her body. Beaten by
her husband. …I will send the pictures. She acousted him after she saw
his phone ringing and the caller was stored as “wife” she wondered who
might be his wife different from him.
She picked the call and informed
the caller she is the wife. She also discovered her own number was no
longer stored as wife but with a different name from her. She complained
of discovering that he sent about 60k to another lady while she and too
children are in hunger.”
With that message started a chain of
events. The doctor is a wonderful professional. He followed the global
best practice in providing treatment to this victim of domestic
violence.
Today, before the lady was discharged from the
hospital, I made contact with her. We discussed her safety going
forward. We discussed her fears about going home to the husband that
beat her so badly. DPA had wished that her discharge was delayed till
tomorrow to give us more time to find a safe house for her. But her
husband had a different plan.
The husband is a leader of a group
of touts known as Area Boys in their neighborhood. He led a bunch of
violent thugs and he was at the hospital trying to force them to
discharge his wife. He had sensed that there was trouble. He was not
sure what it was exactly. But he was aware that some people led by one
lawyer were trying to get him into trouble. He knew that the longer his
wife stayed in the hospital, the more likely he would fall into a trap.
So, he was really disturbing the hospital to discharge the lady. The
lady was due to be discharge today, anyway. But he wanted that done in
the morning and we wanted it done later so that we could do something to
him.
In the end, DPA was not ready to take the woman. And the
hospital had no choice than to discharge her to her husband by 2pm. I
finally spoke to the man. I made it clear to him that I would hold him
responsible if anything happens to his wife. Also, I spoke to the woman.
She is to call me once every week to assure me she is okay. And I will
be sending a DPA probation officer to visit the woman every month to
ensure that the man has stopped beating her.
Here are the
pictures of the woman and her injuries. We have zero tolerance for
domestic violence. If you get to the point of beating your wife, that is
the point you declare war against DPA. It is your choice – war or
peace. Our goal is to see everybody, every woman safe in her own hous
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